Dream Crushing Weasel

Would you rather be a Dream Crushing Weasel or have your dreams crushed by a Dream Crushing Weasel?

Considerations:

• Assume that you have dreams that are substantial enough that they could be crushed, and that having your dreams crushed would be enough to depress you for a decent amount of time.
• [Is it worse that your dreams were crushed by a Dream Crushing Weasel, as opposed to the harsh realities of the world?]
• As a Dream Crushing Weasel, you would actively do something to crush the dreams of the crushee, more than being the messenger of bad news.
• As a Dream Crushing Weasel, crushing dreams is habitual and regular. You may or may not enjoy this.
• As a Dream Crushing Weasel, the Crushee will discover that you are the origin of the crushed dreams, however there is little recourse for the crushee.